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Monday 7 October 2013

The Gathering of SuperParents @ Frontier

This is not a typical blog that we are used to in the Frontier Blog. Usually, the children's voice comes out. This time round, we have another voice -- that of parents'. This is also an important voice. This is their story ....

Written by our guest writer:
Mdm Ng Guat Leng                                                                                    
Parent of Royston Loh (P1 Responsibility)                                                                                                                                 
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The episode began when the PPC members received an invitation from the school to put up an item or two for the upcoming children’s day event (3 October 2013).  I brushed it aside simply because I do not know what I could do.  An easy excuse.

An email from Mr Paul Goh (the violin instructor of the school) sets me thinking.  He invited us to do a percussion ostinato using a cup.  Sounds interesting.  I read on and was impressed that it even had a link to a tutorial which was demonstrated by a P2 Frontierer.  She is also the brain-child of this idea. I clicked on the link and soon I was having fun practising!

I recalled that my child had previously expressed his interest to perform in school.  I could fulfill his wish and it would be so cool to do it together.  Now I had a purpose.  It didn’t take much from me to reply Paul saying, “I will be there!”

Rehearsal time was limited. In fact, we only met twice before the actual day. Working parents hurried home after work.  Some turned up with their other children.  We met up in a parent’s home once and the other day we asked permission to use a church.  Isn’t that troublesome?  It was. We wished we could have more support but it was only a small hurdle compared to our goal.




The rehearsals went (.. erm) well. There was a lot of laughter. There were cups flying around.  Parents and children struggled to get the sequencing right, often laughing at themselves while encouraging others.  I hope Paul wasn’t pulling out his hair! He subsequently introduced variations to the percussion.  This created more laughter and more flying cups.  It seems like mission impossible.
Practice Makes Perfect!

Mr Paul Goh looking on... 

 We took pictures and videos during these embarrassing moments of ours.  These snippets were being compiled into a video montage.  One parent stayed up to 5am to do this.  One super hero is created because of her perseverance.  Kudos!

More Practice!
Music and Bonding~!
The video was screened during the concert and it aims to convey the message that each of us can overcome our difficulties and challenges to achieve something that we can be proud of.  Just like what a Super hero will do. 

There were pre-performance jitters.  The performance is not seamless. The tables were shaking from the stomping! We didn't expect that.   We couldn’t hear each other and the rhythm but we did the best we could out of the situation.  We successfully completed our performance with the most important little people in our lives.  


“To be in your children’s memories tomorrow, you have to be in their lives today.” – Barbara Johnson


Performing for the Children!

Ta-da ...our SuperParents in Action! Thank you !!!!!!


I did it for my child and all parents that had participated did it for theirs too.  Let’s hear from them.

“I did it for my gal. I was unwilling initially as I am rather busy with work during this period. She said that she wanted me to perform in her school children’s day concert. That melted my heart… We enjoyed singing and doing the actions so much that I suggested it to Paul” – Mary Heng;  Charlene Goh (P2 Confidence)

“My son felt great to perform together with me on stage. He liked the idea and wanted to join. It’s the first time that we perform together.” – Chloe Lau;  Enson Yip (P2 Joy)
“.. The great part is that we can perform together on stage! My boy enjoyed it greatly and felt excited after the celebration. He told me that he wanted to do it again.” – Ong Pei Pei; Stetson Tan (P2 Confidence)

“I just love the bonding between parents and definitely with our children.” – Linda; Muhammed Danish Ramli (P2 Resilience)

“I did it because I was too busy with work previously. The only time I could afford was the “coaching” time with my child. It was a great opportunity to share a memorable fun time with her. It also demonstrate, to my child, that mummy have to learn new things too. We need mental strength, perseverance and good time management to achieve our goals.” – Reena Heng; Reis Poh (P2 Respect)

“I have to take care of an eight month old baby so there is time constraint. My son hoped that I can participate and support him.  Although the result might not be as good as we expected, it is a good experience. This is also my first time performing with my darling.” – Joan;  Adrian Ow Yong (P2 Innovation)

“I decided to get involved in the performance for several reasons. 1) To support the school, teachers and students. 2) To boost confidence in my girl. She told me she has stage fear. I told her that I have stage fear too and is learning to cope with it. 3) To get to know more parents. Most of us here are from the pioneer batch. I think it’ll be great if we can build a special bond within us.”  - Dorothy;  Poon zhi Han (P2 Respect)

“The thought of having to perform on stage makes me jittery.  I got the courage from my children who love the “cup-knocking” idea. It’s our first performance together and we are looking forward to more.” – Joanna; Krystal Lim (P2 Confidence), Kevan Lim (P2 Respect)

“As we show on the stage of the cup song, every cup is very ordinary, every cup is very important, each cup is making the synthesis of rhythm and melody. In education, give each cup to realize the many possibilities. A few years later, the children will sing the song “When I’m gone” again, the school will remember their rhythm and melody.” – Sofia; Dong Yijie (P1 Care)

“I joined because I would like to take this opportunity to get to know the PPC members. Although it was only a three time practices, I could see the power and seriousness in them. We could coordinate the stomps and claps together….”– Lily Loh; Ng Jia Jun (P2 Respect)


“… My daughter is simply over the moon. This is a good opportunity to try, practice and perform new things. After this performance, my daughter learnt that practice make perfect.” – Khong Chiew Yun ; Yip Yern Teng (P2 Respect)

“… This is a good bonding time between parent and child and with other parents from the PSG.  Though the performance could be better (my personal view) if not for the tables but we had enjoyed ourselves very much. We look forward to more performance together with the parents, our kids and with the teachers too…” – Jen Yew;  Eunice Tay (P2 Innovation)


Cup song 与 Super hero

This is not a typical blog that we are used to in the Frontier Blog. Usually, it is in English but this one is written in Chinese. Usually, the children's voice comes out. This time round, we have another voice -- that of parents'. This is also an important voice. This is their story ....

Written by our guest writer:
Sofia                                   
Parent of Dong Yijie (P1 Care)                

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      本来这只是一个普通的儿童节庆祝,在我的想像中,无非就是唱歌跳舞做游戏吃冰淇淋。但当有一天,一介回家跟我说,学校要将儿童节庆祝与慈善活动结合起来、将寻找身边的 Super hero 与学校价值观教育结合起来,我还是眼睛一亮——一个普通的庆祝活动将被赋予特别的意义。

    之后我就收到了 P2 Resilience 班 Justus' 爸爸 Paul  的群发邮件,鼓励义工家长们为儿童节表演一个节目。Paul在邮件中推荐了 Anna Kendrick   When Im Gone,他特别强调——杯子非常普通,却在生活中扮演着重要的角色,在这首歌中更是成为一个核心要素。这与学校提倡的“每个孩子都可以用自己的方式、在微小的事情上成为 Super hero  的活动主题不谋而合。Paul同时也发来了 P2 Confidence 班 Charlene Goh 和他一起为我们做的 “杯子之歌”示范视频链接。他甚至还细心地提出,将歌词里的 “bottles of whiskey” 改成 “cans of pepsi  Charlene  是我们的主唱 Mary 的女儿,也是 Charlene 将这首歌介绍给了 Mary,然后 Mary 又将这首歌推荐给了 Paul)。

        “杯子之歌”让我想起几年前参加过的两次“形体创意与体能教育” 工作坊。工作坊由以色列 David Yellin Teachers College Professor Ruth Bar-Sinai 主持,强调材料的开放性使用,鼓励最大限度地用创意挖掘出一个简单物件的多种可能性用途,以体现材料的最大使用价值。比如,一个杯子,可以有很多种玩法——“杯子之歌”就是其中的一种玩法。




         所以,我与一介商量:要不要参加“杯子之歌”?一介很兴奋,跟着示范视频练习了几次,就掌握了基本节奏,并马上当起了我的老师。

         第一次排练在 P2 Confidence 班的智升家。参加的人数完全出乎我的意料——客厅挤满了人,大家席地而坐,几十个杯子齐刷刷撞击在地,大家担心楼下的邻居能否受得了这持续1个多小时的响声,所以有意识地克制音量——但得意酣畅之余难免忘形,何况还有那么多不习惯克制的孩子。可以想像,智升的妈妈当时承受了多大的压力。谢谢你,智升妈妈,谢谢你慷慨地成全了我们的第一次排练。

         第二次排练在Lakeside一间教会,那是Paul服侍的教会。这一晚,家长和孩子进行了分组,排练了2个多小时。让我感动的是,Mary的小女儿一直坐在 baby chair 上陪我们排练到9点多。谢谢你们,Mary还有小天使。

          需要特别提到的是,P2 Creativity 班的 Zoey Chong 的妈妈 Lim Peipei 主动承担了我们排练时的影音文件的后期编辑工作。谢谢 Zoey 妈妈——演出前一晚,她为这个Video加班到凌晨5点多,几乎没怎么睡,就到学校参加演出前的排练——这是我们的第三次排练,也是唯一的一次完整排练。

         在离开校园多年之后,我们这群家长又一次体会到了演出前的一点点期待、一点点兴奋、一点点紧张。我们在参加我们孩子的儿童节,我们又何尝不是在重温我们自己的儿童节?我们在 WhatsApp 请 P1 Responsibility 智鹏的妈妈代购彩色杯子、通报服装信息——根据这些信息,我还郑重其事地跑去买了一件特大号的儿童服装给自己,只因上面 Superman 的标志。


        后来校长 Mr Koh 在庆祝活动上安慰那些穿校服的孩子们说,没穿 Super 标志的衣服也没关系,因为——每个人都可以在内心、在行为上做自己的 Super hero。当我听到这席话时,我是如此庆幸,我的女儿身处其中。这间普通的小学,关心孩子的情感体验,随时随地都在传达一种受用终身的价值观。

        这就是我们期待的教育。就像我们在舞台上呈现的杯子之歌,每一个杯子都很普通,每一个杯子都很重要,每一个杯子都在合成节奏和旋律。是教育,让每一个杯子实现它的多种可能性。几年之后,孩子们再唱起这首 When Im Gone,学校将记住他们留下的节奏和旋律。
Mr Paul 将我们聚集在一起

         我要特别谢谢Paul 。谢谢你将我们聚集在一起,参与到孩子的快乐中去。  最后,我还要谢谢老师们为孩子们的儿童节精心安排了如此丰富、有趣的游戏活动!